Imposter Syndrome is the term used to describe the feelings of inadequacy that persist in our minds despite evidence to the contrary.
Imposter Syndrome gives rise to a tendency towards self-doubt and feelings of being ‘a fraud’ and we may ask ourselves questions such as ‘who am I to be doing this?’ when we find ourselves in new and different situations that challenge us.
When challenged, these thoughts are generally found to have no bearing on reality or the truth and should therefore not be used as evidence of our competence or otherwise. They are certainly not a tool by which to measure our ability or success.
It is the origin of these thoughts that we must question as they are likely to be based on limiting beliefs that we hold about ourselves. Such beliefs are undoubtedly based on historic events and these beliefs, whilst serving to protect us, can prevent us from moving forward with our daily lives. Imposter Syndrome may also prevent us from taking advantage of opportunities that are offered to us because we may feel as though we have been asked by mistake or perhaps that we may be found out to be a 'fake'.
I have always been incredibly interested in understanding more about Imposter Syndrome. It is something that comes up for many women, irrespective of who they are and what they do. You may also be surprised to hear that it comes up for men too!
Key to the the success of overcoming Imposter Syndrome, is to recognise it for what it is. Once we bring it into our awareness, it starts to lose its power over us. Just like all beliefs.
Many of our Imposter Syndrome thoughts are based on limiting beliefs or the 'unrealistic expecatations' that we have placed upon ourselves. They may also have been ascribed to us by others. And whilst we have carried these 'thoughts' with us, the truth is that they no longer serve us. Neither are they relevant to our current situation.
If you are interested in understanding more about Imposter Syndrome, you may like to download my free guide 'Who do you think you are?'.
This guide is intended to highlight some of the more common Imposter Syndrome 'thoughts' that come up and to offer you the opportunity to challenge them as they arise by asking you questions to consider as you work your way through.
When we ask ourselves questions that we may not have asked before, our subconscious mind is challenged to find an answer. This is where we are able to access new solutions and start to challenge our negative thought patterns.
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If you found this post helpful, you may also find this post useful too - What is a Limiting Belief?
My name is Nicky Kentisbeer and I am a Mindset & Confidence Coach. I support women to work on their mindset and develop the confidence that they need to move beyond the challenges that are keeping them stuck, towards a place that they would much rather be. I do this based on the belief that we have within us the most incredible resources and capabilities to find our own solutions - irrespective of our background or starting point. There is no barrier to entry.
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